The Concept of Secrets

It's been a while since I last blog...

Anyway, I usually been living in a life of secrets these days... I've been "so called missing in action" by most of my contacts as most of them hardly able to see me around nor I would be able to see them... The only contacts that frequently I see was my fellow course mates from my own faculty... And that's only about 10-20 people... It seems that people hardly know I exist and even they do, they hardly able to see me around... So, it's clear that as people are separated or we called it "so called depart", they might not know whether you are there unless they ask... In other words, you are living in a secret life, in which you can hide most of your identities... Some people knows me, but they may not really know my details...

Now, what I'm trying to emphasize here is not to tell you to become a loner like me, but the fact is that secrets should only be told with two condition... If the person that you know, asks about you, then it's your choice to decide to tell him or not.. If the condition is otherwise whereby the person you just met, be very cautious on what you gonna tell... Here's an incident, one of my friends saw me with a girl, and when I left, he asks me whether that girl is my GF (Of course you know this term)... Since I know him, I told him that she is my siblings...

In conclusion, secrets can protect you... Only tell when these conditions met,

if (person == friend) {
    if (friend asks) {
        return answer;
        }
    else {
         return null;
         }
    }
else {
     return null;
}

Ok, I've been too "Java-listic"... These are the conditions,

1. If that person is your friend and ask you, then you may and can tell.
    If not, don't tell unnecessary.
2. If that person is not your friend, don't tell unnecessary.

There simple...
Cause secrets is your life...

Curiosity Makes A Person Knows More...

Now, some people say that curiosity is not a very good thing...
What do you think ???
Well, personally, I find it different !!! In fact, curiosity makes a person what to learn and know more !!!

To prove that to you, let ask you a question, have you ever wonder the value of pi (the constant value used for calculating a circle) ??? Well (duh), everybody knows that pi = 3.142 but do you actually knows the complete value of pi ??? Have you ever wonder that in your mind before ???

With curiosity, this is what I discovered...

pi =

3.141592653589793238462643383279502884197169399375105820974944592307816406286208998
62803482534211706798214808651328230664709384460955058223172535940812848111745028410
27019385211055596446229489549303819644288109756659334461284756482337867831652712019
09145648566923460348610454326648213393607260249141273724587006606315588174881520920
96282925409171536436789259036001133053054882046652138414695194151160943305727036575
95919530921861173819326117931051185480744623799627495673518857527248912279381830119
49129833673362440656643086021394946395224737190702179860943702770539217176293176752
38467481846766940513200056812714526356082778577134275778960917363717872146844090122
49534301465495853710507922796892589235420199561121290219608640344181598136297747713
09960518707211349999998372978049951059731732816096318595024459455346908302642522308
25334468503526193118817101000313783875288658753320838142061717766914730359825349042
87554687311595628638823537875937519577818577805321712268066130019278766111959092164
20198938095257201065485863278865936153381827968230301952035301852968995773622599413
89124972177528347913151557485724245415069595082953311686172785588907509838175463746
49393192550604009277016711390098488240128583616035637076601047101819429555961989467
67837449448255379774726847104047534646208046684259069491293313677028989152104752162
05696602405803815019351125338243003558764024749647326391419927260426992279678235478
16360093417216412199245863150302861829745557067498385054945885869269956909272107975
09302955321165344987202755960236480665499119881834797753566369807426542527862551818
41757467289097777279380008164706001614524919217321721477235014144197356854816136115
73525521334757418494684385233239073941433345477624168625189835694855620992192221842
72550254256887671790494601653466804988627232791786085784383827967976681454100953883
78636095068006422512520511739298489608412848862694560424196528502221066118630674427
86220391949450471237137869609563643719172874677646575739624138908658326459958133904
78027590099465764078951269468398352595709825822620522489407726719478268482601476990
90264013639443745530506820349625245174939965143142980919065925093722169646151570985
83874105978859597729754989301617539284681382686838689427741559918559252459539594310
49972524680845987273644695848653836736222626099124608051243884390451244136549762780
79771569143599770012961608944169486855584840635342207222582848864815845602850601684
27394522674676788952521385225499546667278239864565961163548862305774564980355936345
68174324112515076069479451096596094025228879710893145669136867228748940560101503308
61792868092087476091782493858900971490967598526136554978189312978482168299894872265
88048575640142704775551323796414515237462343645428584447952658678210511413547357395
23113427166102135969536231442952484937187110145765403590279934403742007310578539062
19838744780847848968332144571386875194350643021845319104848100537061468067491927819
11979399520614196634287544406437451237181921799983910159195618146751426912397489409
07186494231961567945208095146550225231603881930142093762137855956638937787083039069
79207734672218256259966150142150306803844773454920260541466592520149744285073251866
60021324340881907104863317346496514539057962685610055081066587969981635747363840525
71459102897064140110971206280439039759515677157700420337869936007230558763176359421
87312514712053292819182618612586732157919841484882916447060957527069572209175671167
22910981690915280173506712748583222871835209353965725121083579151369882091444210067
51033467110314126711136990865851639831501970165151168517143765761835155650884909989
85998238734552833163550764791853589322618548963213293308985706420467525907091548141
654985946163718027098199430992448895757128289059232332609729...

And this goes on !!!

So, curiosity is actually not a bad thing cause you'll learn more things from the one you have already know...
In a nutshell, BE CURIOUS !!!

How to Achieve Success...

Hi, everybody...

I have been silent for quite some time... Sorry for that...
I actually need time to recharge myself after completing all my assignments and courseworks (given to me in the month of April)

Anyway, Uni. life is as usual (sae-mo sae-mo a.k.a. so so only lor). But the sad case is that exam is just around the corner... But the good news is that after the exam, 3 months of summer breaks awaits !!! HURRAY !!! But, first thing first, exam must be encountered. So, how to do it ??? Some people are so worried to the extend that they actually forget everything !!! This is serious !!! Things like that do happen !!! So, here is something I wanna give to my readers, especially those with exam just around the corner.

This is the ABCs of achievement... It's what keeping me to strive for success all the time... And I would really wanna share it to you guys and girls since someone shared this to me a long, long time ago.

If it is too small, here is the meaning
 __________________________

Avoid negative sources, people, things and habits.

Believe in yourself.

Consider things from every angle.

Don't give up and don't give in.

Enjoy life today, yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come.

Family and Friends are hidden treasures. Seek them and enjoy their riches.

Give more than you planned to give.

Hang on to your dreams.

Ignore those who try to discourage you.

Just do it!

Keep on trying, no matter how hard it seems. It will get better.

Love yourself first and foremost.

Make it happen.

Never lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal.

Open your eyes and see things as they really are.

Practice makes perfect.

Quitters never win and winners never quit.

Read, study and learn about everything important in life.

Stop Procrastination.

Take control of your own destiny.

Understand yourself in order to understand others.

Visualize it.

Want it more than anything.

Xccelerate your efforts.

You are unique, nothing can replace you.

Zero in on your target, and go for it !
___________________________

So, take my words... Strive for success with this... Once you know it, achievement is just a flick of your finger...

No Boundaries...

No boundaries... The song sang by Adam Lambert and Kris Allen in the American Idol... However, Kris Allen won the contest...

Anyway, at first thought, what do you know by that two words ??? Ok, it is actually similar to this phrase

"SKY IS THE LIMIT."

Here's the detail... People can do anything... They are free to do whatever he or she wants (in a positive way)... Now, how is it possible ???

I went with a group of friends to climb the Broga Hill (near to my Uni.) to watch the sunrise... Yup, we climbed early in the morning (about 5 a.m.)... Now, at first I thought that I do not have the capability to climb the hill (FYI : Broga Hill got 3 peaks and the journey from bottom to Peak 1 and Peak 2 to Top Peak was extermely difficult)... But I was able to climb the 3 peaks and watch the sun to rise and the view was a definite "WOW" !!!

Now, here's the thing, my readers... If you put your mind to it, you can do anything... And that leads to no boundaries and barriers... The reason, simple... YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF !!!

Be optimistic...

Is a sad thing to tell you even though Chinese New Year (CNY) holiday may lasts for a week or two (till 21st of February), some of us are unfortunate... The reason ??? Simple... Class, Lab, Tutorial, and Test on Thursday... Worst still is that on Friday, some of us have no class !!! Is like coming back to uni. just to attend one measly day of class, ended up ending the CNY holiday earlier...

THAT IS WHAT SOME MAY THINK (Including me)

That I found out one thing from this...

When the CNY holiday is over for us, it does not really means it is really over...
Being optimistic will tells you that CNY (along with the holiday) will come again next year...
So, in other words, it will NOT be really over !!!

So, guys and girls reading this post, BE OPTIMISTIC... From there, you will think positive in any situation...

P.S.   CNY with family was GREAT !!!

It will be a day long remembered...

You know ther's one thing that wonders in my mind and that is this...

"Have people ever look back to their past to be a better person in the future ???"

This is a question that keeps making me think (and it's interesting)...
Now it's a but complicated to explain but I'll try my best not to make things harder for you readers...

Now, in my life during my time when I was a teenager studying at seconday school, I kept having neagtive influences due to the fact tha I was treated differently... I was being bullied by my own friends and I was cheated by my friends and I was fooled by my friends as well... Sometimes, I was misused by my friends if you know what I mean... However, this is the negative side of the past... What I didn't know is that once I'm at campus, one of my friends changed me (FYI, he is still studying at the same Uni. with me), and he told me that never look in the past where it haunts you, but look in the past where it can contributes you in becoming a better person in the future... So, I should not actually look into those things, but actually look into the positive side of the past... Let's see... Ah, now I remembered !!! Even though some friends like to bully me, there are some who will stand by me, meaning to say I'm not alone... Besides, I contribute a lot to my friends, teachers, and the school... Ah, what good memories...

You see my fellow readers, past memories can but joyful, but at the same time, it maybe hurtful... What gives you joy, keep it in you, always... What gives you pain and suffering, cast them away, just like setting the birds in the cage free... So, one person should remember the good memory (past) cause not only it brings joy, but also helps in becoming a better person... I learnt my part... What about you ???

Enjoy with family when you have the time...

Here's one topic that I want to dedicate to you all since Chinese New Year (CNY) is just around the corner...

Now, here's the thing that you can ask yourself... What would you do if you have ample time and seasons greeting (holiday) is just around the corner ??? Well (obviously), I would suggest that spending some quality time with family would be a great idea... Especially for those who are Chinese, now is the time to be with family and have some enjoyable time with them... Let me tell you, I have not step on my Grandma's house for quite some time already and not to mention even my Dad's house !!! I felt at home and relaxed when staying at where I should actually be... Anyway, it was great being with my family and my grandparents, having dinner and tossing Yee Sang together... Never had one of those for a while... But seriously, the best part was being with my family for CNY and I can't wait for it...

My fellow readers,

If you have the chance to be with your family, be with them... I know some time it would be better to be away from them but it's meaningless if you do it frequently... Besides, your family is one who brought you up and you should be proud to have family like that !!! So, I'll emphasize it again, if you have a chance to be with them, be with them... I know one of my friends frequently returns home during weekend... So, spend some quality time with your family on this Chinese New Year and have a wonderful CNY celebration...

GONG XI FA CAI !!!

Is there still any kindness in this world ???

Don't take this topic in the wrong way... I know some does...
So, I'm gonna tell you what is this topic really mean...

Now, I know some practice this type of characteristic, so, that's good... Keep it up... But for those that rarely practice (I wouldn't wanna say did not practice as I believe in you that you do but not that often), just try to do it more often... Here's the reason why I posted this topic...

I was having lunch alone till some of my friends came and join me... Apparently, the whole table is full (well, almost full) and by luck, I happened to meet my lecturer who is going to have his lunch also... Sadly, there wasn't any table available for him to sit and worst still is that he is alone, not with his friends (other lecturer)... So, I felt pity and wonder where will he sit when the food is ready... So, I approached him and asked him to join me and my friends and have lunch together... He joined us eventually and we have a wonderful lunch that afternoon...

You see, there is actually no such things as age when it comes to kindness... In this case, you have to be kind to many people, whether he or she is young or old, tall or short, rich or poor... After all, we are still the same, HUMAN. So, whenever you see someone you know, the least you can do is being nice to them... One thing that I obviously do is I always open the door for my friends, even though my friends insisted me to go in first...

Therefore, don't let this type of characteristic fade away... WE ARE ALL THE SAME...

What is really meant by life ???

Some people said to me that life is nothing, life is meaningless... Now, I may assume that the reason they said so is because of one thing... They do not have the "lantern to light the path for them"... Now, I was in this situation before... It was terrifying, and horrible... Is like, like there is no will to go on, to live... But what changed me is a miracle... Although I felt like as if there's no point of living, but there's one thing that "make the table turns to my side", and that is support, motivation, and believe... Now, support and motivation may come from your friends and family... As long as you still treasure them, they will always be there for you, no matter how far you are away from them... But, with these two, it is still not enough... You must believe in yourself, believe that you can embrace the challenge of life, believe that you can succeed, believe that you can do ANYTHING !!! The one factor that makes people think that life is meaningless is due to this, not believing in themselves...

So, here's the point, YOU ARE NOT ALONE, you always have family and friends to get along with... So, encouragement is there already, but you MUST also believe in yourself... With that, life will and never be meaningless... Here's the summary...

SUPPORT + MOTIVATION + BELIEVE = MEANINGFUL AND ENJOYABLE LIFE !!!

So,

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF !!!

Time - TICK TOCK, TICK TOCK

What is time ??? What is actually meant by time ??? Have you ever wonder that in your mind ??? Some may have, some don't...

Time, can actually be defined in many ways... Personally, I defined time as how long I have to spend before it's gone... I know, it's still confusing, and that is why a story must comes with it...

Here's the thing... Ever wonder this in your mind ??? If (not exactly true) that you have coincidently found out your life span as a human (a.k.a when you will, well... You know what I mean), imagine the amount of time you got before it happens... How are u going to spend it ??? (Now again, this is not exactly true)

Now, what I'm trying to say is that time cannot be treated likely... An hour, a minute, or a second, or even a nanoseconds counts (of course you can't count nanoseconds but still it counts !)... Even when a minute pass, it can't be retrived cause time works like this... Once it's gone, it's gone... If it is 5:25 p.m., it will never be 5:24 p.m. ... So, like I said time will never stop or wait for a person... It keeps on ticking... Therefore, EVERY SECOND COUNTS. SO, MAKE IT WORTH WHILE IT LASTS !!!

The Power of Books can Change A Person

Hey, everybody... I've returned... I was busy with my preparation for my semester exam so, I was unable to write any story for that time... But, I did keep the topic that I want to share with you guys and girls... So, this is the first dose for you all... it might sounds boring but it is actually very interesting once you know it...

People may find books can be rather boring... In fact, even a piece of paper with written word all over it would require a force so that people will read it, and yet, they do not understand and thus, forget about it...

Now, people should know that books has the ability to change a persons... Initially, I was a person that rarely go to the library, I always go to the computer lab... A few weeks before the exam starts, I started to go to the library. The reasons are as follow

1. Computer Lab is full and noisy and I can't concentrate...
2. Library got lots of books that I can refer to...

So, I stayed in the library to study and refer to more books and in time, it really changed me... From there onwards, I started to go to library very often, and everytime I sit at one table and look at the book shelves filled with books, I feel like the books really want me to be one with them... And the more I read, the more I get... You see, the power of books can greatly influence a person, especially a person that has the willingness to accept that he /she loves to read and become one with the books...

So, in general, never stop reading... Keep going no matter what... Books is a stepping stone to success as long as is it used for good purpose... Remeber that always... Some use is negatively and cause a person to chnage to bad... So, use it for good and at the same time, be careful...